Thanks for getting rid of that left navigation menu - never really liked it. The top navigation links are aesthetically more pleasing in my opinion and looked much cleaner! :)
Kamakshi, I take it as a compliment. Buttering is an art I believe and only few can do a good job of it ni :) About Capt. saab, I don't need to say anything, his posts say it all. I only wish we can learn some things from him.
This has got to me one of the worst cases of denial and defensiveness I have seen in a long time.
"First of all, I wrote what I felt. Why did you react to it at all, if you feel otherwise about what I wrote? Moreover, my reference was meant to be generic to fit in the bigger picture of the pattern I was seeing. Why do you have to feel, it was for you only?"
Generic - huh? Based on what? You dont make generic comments out of the blue based on nothing. Dont give me that crap - anyone with a an ounce of brains can tell your comments were in reaction to the topic and/or the previous posts. What was the need to make that generic comnent in the first place if you were not reacting to the message coming out of the thread which was to discuss the changes to Sajha and give credit where it was due?
I reacted because I had thanked the admin for those changes and in no way did I see that as buttering up or in any way related to "the republic of Nepal" - which I have been a staunch supporter of in other threads. Ok, if I were to accept for a brief second that you were not talking to me directly but you were speaking about two topics that I had opined on (which anyways I think is nonsense), then what's the problem in challenging your "generic" statement and thinking behind that statement? This is an open forum and when you attack either the message or the messenger, you need to be prepared for people to challenge you.
"Are you kinda apprehensive about being considered one among a general crowd?"
I am answering only because you asked - NO, I am quite ok with being considered as part of a general crowd. But why should a general comment not be challenged if the it is reprehensible to say the least? That is no excuse.
"Secondly, my comment may have been made in a lighter note. What made you feel I was serious?"
I am sorry, but I can't but laugh at such a lame defense. If your comment was in a lighter note - there are ways of indicating that. Ever heard of smileys or emoticons which serve the purpose of indicating tone and mood? How long have you been using the internet to not know that?
"Thirdly, how do you know my ego is bruised? Do you know me?"
I dont need to know you - your reactions and the manner and timing of them - clearly show that.
"So STFU Mr. Judgmental Haddock!"
Ho ho ho ... so this is what it boils down to huh? Does what I say bite so much that you need me to shut it up? Can't handle it ....boo hoo hoo.
If we are going to go to that level, then why don't you put a lid on that stinking pie hole of yours - you will do us all a great service by putting a cork on that whining that comes out of it. If you want this conversation to get really obsene, I am ready for it . On the other hand, if you want this conversation to stay civil, or however close to civil it can get under the circusmatances, that suits me too.
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SNDY ma'am - I am with you there. There is something wrong with person if they can't tell the difference between honest postive reinforcement and ass-kissing. If being nice is considered to be part of a "PR" function, I think someone here needs help.
Bathroom Coffee - Ha ha ha ha .... didn't know you were into bio tech :P -- our own Dr Frankensetin, huh? LOL!!! That's one heck of a cross-breed, btw :) Thanks for the thought though .
Allright, have a good weekend all. Will be back later.
Mr. Self-proclaimed Smarty:
Excuse me but now I seriously doubt your civil face that you assumed to display before this thread started in your Sajha career. First time, I am writing a long comment in Sajha coz you don't seem to comprehend concise messages.
Look, you surely do have too much time under your belt for it seems like you don't have life outside Sajha! Your long posts in response to each line I wrote can only consume more of Sajha's server space, Mr. Simpleton! With each post, you have proved that not only your thoughts are shallow but you don't think before losing that vulnerable temper of yours. Not only you don't spare women with some respect they deserve, but give everything to prove in this virtual world (where you don't have to show your shameless face) that you were right even when you lost temper for no particular reason, Mr. egoist!
Yes my comments were on the reaction to the topics. While I thank San for his wonderful service over the years, I know and what you seem to have missed is, a forum like this cannot exist if users like us don't contribute. We all should be thankful to each other.I thank you, and you should thank me Mr. Haddock! Don't be greedy when you thank others. I am not against thanking people. But there is a thin line between thanking and buttering. I saw it as buttering and your long posts in defense of it, is not going to change that view.
Just because you opened this thread does not make you the admin of this thread. Some comments are better off to be let go if you don't agree with. Why do you have to react to it with your gay-ass comment?
"Kiss my ass"
Who wrote that first? You or me? You are the first one to lose civility and reach to that obscene level through that masked face of yours Mr. Haddock! Don't try to preach me about levels which you are more prone to switch.
What are you on? Where exactly have I "proclaimed" to be a "smarty"? That's your "proclamation" - not mine.
And what a flip flop - makes John Kerry and Mitt Romney look like kiddos - first it was "buttering up the admin's bottom", then it was a "generic comment" that was directed at a space ship circling the earth, and then it was in a "light vein" and it got all defensive, and then you yourself appreciated his effort(now that couldn't possibly be "buttering" his "bottom", could it?). And now it is back to it buttering and respect for women (which I'll comment on in a bit). Make up your mind!
How is your thanking and appreciating the admin any different from that of the others? For someone who has been crowing "judgemental" on top of their lungs for the last couple of posts, wooops, a bit of the pot would never call the kettle black there, huh? When "simpletons" say thank you how could they possibly know the difference between "buttering a bottom" and showing genuine appreciation. Talk about double standards.
About respecting women, if that's the newest excuse you want to come up with, good luck. I thought it was a bit too early to get so desperate. So I am the most terrible person on Sajha for challenging a person, who happened to be a woman, who used such lady-like language "putting butter on someone's bottom". Go back and read my comments about being challenged on a public forum. If you are not prepared for that on a such a forum or don't like someone holding your feet to the fire or can't handle different styles of argument, then perhaps this isn't the right place to be.
And by the way, to set the record straight, not that it matters too much to me at this juncture, read the thread again, the "bottom" comment came before the "ass" one.
As for my life, don't even go there. I dont need to explain my life even though it is a very good one. I am fully aware of how much time I am spending on this when I can and such time is, for the most part, well within my reach.
This is fast begining to resemble a circus and turning out to be nothing other than entertainment value. At the end of it all, you yourself have contradicted your "bottom buttering" comment by doing the same thing going by how you describe it or perhaps giving credit where it is due as some of the others would put it. To me, you have just proved yourself wrong and done it in a way better than anyone else could.
Have a nice day if you can and I'll be back in the evening if this is to be continued.
दाँतमा दाँतमा!! दाँतैमा हान्देउ!! :पि
तेस्छि हाउँरो शिरिश गुरुले काम पाउँछ!! ;)
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पि एस - कत्ति बच्चाहरु जसो झगडा गर्या हुन्!! बरु सान दाइलाई बटर घसे केहि नयाँ सुधार हुन्थ्यो कि यो गणतन्त्र नेपालाँ!!
लु मैले चाहिनि घसे बटर!!
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Someone wakes up early in the morning, boots his laptop, opens the internet browser where "Sajha.com" is set as HOME, scans through all the threads to see if anyone had said anything in his honor and takes all his time to reply to them. That's how he starts his day. He surely has one heck of a life! Talk of his life being good.
He writes, deletes, rewrites, re-deletes, opens dictionary.com for few GRE words that he took decades ago and compiles a post full of word tricks which more than half of the Sajhaites don't care to read and those who do can't comprehend what this oldie is blabbering about. Talk of he being a smarty.
My opinion is that, one does not respond lowly if what he's been told does not bother him at all. Somewhere in the back of your mind, you do think "I seem to have overdid in thanking which might have given the impression of buttering or did I actually butter?". Else this "circus" would not go for this long, Mr. Joker!
Here's some testimony in the favor of buttering that you do Mr. Staunch (Blind) Republican!
Mitt Romney can still win presidency Mr. wannabe political analyst, so it is not as fun teasing him for being a flip flop as to do the same to the loser Kerry! You are not the only poster here who follows American politics, mind it!
Lastly, whatever you say to support your feeble arguments, the fact of the matter is, you lost your temper to a woman Mr. 9" thick spect owner, and it was only when you exploded with your "kiss my ass" comment I happened to check the originator of this thread. My comment was generic before that. It is you who started the "ass" comments Mr.! I don't go around people telling them to kiss my ass. May you find someone ASAP to kiss your desperate ass soon.
Ha ha ha ... Someone is trying to play shrink here, huh? Unfortunately, you do an equally poor job with it as you did with trying to find excuses to your "buttering" comments. After having proved themselves wrong through all those contradictory statements, all she (or is it a "he" - for someone who repeatedly talks about "hiding behind the internet", I couldn't tell) can do is try and attack someone else's life and personality. And there too, you are so wrong!!!
"You are not the only poster here who follows American politics, mind it! "
Again, your screwed up perceptions at work there. Did I say I was? Got a bit of an inferiority complex, huh? First it was the smarty comment and now this - are you so threatened by the opposing view point that you are so sensitive to others knowing what they do? If my vocabulary, which, btw, I think is average, makes you scratch your head, then I will let others judge as to who here looks up dictionaries.
"Lastly, whatever you say to support your feeble arguments, the fact of the matter is, you lost your temper to a woman Mr. 9" thick spect owner, and it was only when you exploded with your "kiss my ass" comment I happened to check the originator of this thread."
First of all, get it out of your head that I am responding only because I started the thread.For reasons explained before, which you seem to be in denial of, you passed judgment on an issue and I challenged it. I am convinced my response at the time was appropriate given the strong words you used.
And lets not even get to the "feeble argument bit" - it is actually comical coming from someone who just proved themselves wrong beyond any doubt. As for digging up previous posts, I don't need to do that, anyone clicking on your user name can see the scumbag that you are.
Still trying to hide behind the lame woman defense? That and attacking me are the only two things your defeated mind is left with since you have no valid arguments to go by anymore. I know where I stand on both those things, and your stinking verbal diarrhea means nothing. Looser!
Unless you can come up with something that isn't so full of shit, I am done with your lame and whiny comments. For someone analyzing other people's lives, perhaps it is time for you to get one yourself.
So I am a scumbag huh? And what are you? I didn't need to dig into the older threads to find those testimonies. I had seen your buttering attitude towards the admin for few posts in the past already. If they were not RELEVANT to the discussion here, I wouldn't have posted them. And look at you! You became so desperate to prove your points that you needed to scrutinize my past posts, irrelevant to the discussion, to win a favor here huh? Pathetic!
I don't need to present my defense being a woman but I thought sensible men do respect women. Didn't know you belong to the same pool of hypocrites.
All I said was:
"Good to see people putting butter on someone's bottom. Good sign of new republic Nepal."
But all I got in response was:
"If anyone has a problem with me giving credit where it is due in a manner of my choosing, and I normally dont like putting things this way but the viscousness of the last comment makes me want to, then they can kiss my ass."
And if I had put a smiley, you would have responded differently, right? Just goes to show how pathetic your approach to responding to your fellow posters is.
People who read it will understand who lost his temper first and sounded like a cheap bastard. Need I say more?
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hahahahahahha kamakshi, i guess u r a gentlewoman, u seem to have lots of knowledge of knowledge.
once u start a thread stating to me thopa, spitting so dirty and bad words i was left speechless. i didn't had any idea what crime i commit and for commiting the unknown crime i was given capital punishment by u.
Boo hoo hoo ... some one just cant accept defeat. Your arguments have been torn to pieces - they lie in tatters because of your own contradictory blabbering. You have been exposed for the numb skull that you are. You have lost every single argument on the issue so all you can do is whine. Looser!
Go get your head examined -- by a proctologist. And get treated for gender identity disorder - you cant fool people here pretending to be a woman. You've left enough footprints on Sajha to show you are just a blabbering nut case with more than just a gender identity crisis.
Stop repeating yourself - if you cant come up with anything else go take your pills instead of making an ass of yourself here.
And now he is showing yet another color of his. He couldn't succeed bargaining to win his case and now he is into this gender propaganda. Look Mr., just because I did not agree with you, does not change my gender. What is the proof that you are a male? Did I vandalize the site? Show me exactly where and how?
Biden out, Trump next president, so what’s gonna happen to TPS, termination?
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Anybody gotten the TPS EAD extension alert notice (i797) thing? online or via post?
From Trump “I will revoke TPS, and deport them back to their country.”
Tourist Visa - Seeking Suggestions and Guidance
advanced parole
TPS Renewal Reregistration
Sajha Poll: Who is your favorite Nepali actress?
Biden said he will issue new Employment visa for someone with college degree and job offers
Why Americans reverse park?
Nepali Passport Renew
Driver license help ASAP sathiharu
They are openly permitting undocumented immigrants to participate in federal elections in Arizona now.
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