I am in love with a married girl..... and i am unmarried. Most of the times, I feel i don't care abt what the world says but sometimes when i think deep I think I am doing wrong.

dont think about what the world cares, just think about how you feel about you, then you'll know the answer if you're doing right or wrong.

but she's definetely doing it wrong...women ..women ..women..unsolved mystery of all times.

omyyyyy, how can you put up your life by destorying others??? you're definitely wrong, leave the couples alone! well i donno if SHES into you though! but ya..

How are we supposed to know whether or not you are doing wrong or right? Do we know the circumstantial details (both ways)? NO.

A fatal "accident" in self-defense is not wrong, otherwise quite possibly it is.

Catch my drift?

IndisGuise.

P.S: Tyo queen mother bhanne thread ma "Mahishasur" bro le Champions league final ko score bhandya jasto cha. 3 dhekhya jasto thiyo. Common yaar, I have not opened anything that has got to do with soccer, even in Sajha. Rati gayera herchu bhanne plan cha. Tyaso gardina bhayena. Soccer kai thread ma lekhe huncha ni. Kaam ma chatpati bhaisakyo.

...having affair with a married girl.

I do have such an experience but I never felt bad about it. In my case the girl was my ex-girlfriend. I kinda rekindled our love (for a while) because I still had some grudges from the past and when the matters were reconciled I quit. I really dont care whatever happens to her and nor should she care whatever happens to me thereafter.

Why do people constantly fall for those that r "occupied"?
isn't the label "married" a big turn off in the first place?
don't let this kinda thing foster.u might say"she loves me too".i think she's a cheater if she says so.
we should encourage good things but this kinda thing ,guys "stop it".
it's hard to control feelings but we should also use our brain rather than heart in these cases.
what if you were the husband who doted on your wife but she was into someone else?how'd u feel?
put yourself in other's shoes b4 jumping into something like this.
Girl Interrupted dear, do you have any suggestions for him?
Barmahasay pal, hope you won't take the wrong step.

Speaking of rignt and wrong - affair with married person is WRONG!

yes def. totally wrong! you'll never be happy with some married woman!!

Another love thread...lol....

Dude, don't feel dejected about what others feel for you. It's YOU who have to decide.
The million dollar question is, are you ABSOLUTELY sure you are in love????????. Don't hasten my friend, take some time, think with your head before making any sort of decision. The love that you say you are in right now, might just be a case of another random infatuation, fleeting attraction...

Lonely...

well unless the girls into you and wants to leave her husband, thats a diff thing now!

And don't feel excited when people encourage you to go for it. Do they really mean what are you going for?????

Mansion, you said

"but she's definetely doing it wrong...women ..women ..women..unsolved mystery of all times"

Okay, normally i am not a feminist (in fact one class in feminism,and i had it up to my throat) BUT in this case, both guy and the girl (woman, lady -wutever) are EQUAL partners in crime k. So , u cant say one is wrong and one is right. If you respect the guy's feeling of "love" , u need to understand that the woman must feel similar emotion that she is acting upon.

Indisguise..

As far as knowing the circumstances on both sides go, even if the woman has a bad relationship with her husband (he beats her, he is cheating on her, or she is simply not in love with him anymore), the woman should still at first let her husband know that it is not working out between them, and that she is in love with someone else. I dont think it is right for anyone (under any circumstances) to cheat on the other person.

Khaobadi - tsk tsk tsk!! :((

MaRe PaChI nARgA jAnE bAtO .....Ram ram arko ko swasni chai hunna hai, sastra ma ni paap lagcha vaneko cha.

BRILL..BRUEN...... she is married, she is already in a relationship, she has more responsiblity than the guy, what she does is gonna make a diff in her husbands life too, i am not saying the guy is doing the right thing..its definetely wrong..everytime someone is involved with someone who already is withsomeone else, it think its more of a fling than love or whatever.

and dude, i hope you're using your brains to think and not that thing hanging between your legs ...but if she even will leave her husband to be with you, she might do the same thing to you too.

bottom line...have some moral guys.get the fak off from someones wife.

BB,

There is nothing stronger than circumstances. I am not talking about simply abusive relationship, but much more.

Hypothetically, what if the marriage was out of circumstances, which essentially was a compromise, in the sense that one person or both had to act that way for another, simply because they were, technically, a couple. The love factor is NOT there. And it's a drag that they both are waiting for the right time to nullify their agreement, pertaining to some legal issues.

I mean, in the eye of the law, technically, they are married, whereas they do not share a relationship like a husband and wife. One partner is actively dating another, and both have NO problem with that. So is it wrong for that other partner to date/love another wo/man just because they are technically married? That too is about to end soon.

Does S/he have a human right to be pursuing his/her happiness?

Barahmasey has not given under what circumstances they both are in love or started dating. My money is, largely, it is morally and ethically wrong to court married wo/man. But like I said, one can also murder another for self defense. On what circumstances did the drama unfold? That counts.

If the protagonist in this case just went about falling for a married female because he could not help it, be it by hormones flying high or stuffs like that; then it is wrong. But we would not know, he has not told us that, has he?

Tyasaile matra ho. Aba maan nai parauna lai ta kasle rokna sakcha ra? Tara tyo bhanda besi alik kehi bhayo bhane chaii alik garo hola ki. . .

Alik bhanya tala mathi bhaye bujera padam.

IndisGuise.

If someone wants just to fool around (and just for fun) I believe having an affair (or affairs) with a married girl is the safest bet (from a startegic point of view) for many reasons. However the guys who are doing this should always refrain from actually falling in love (having an affair and actually fallling in love are two different things).

# You have a very low liability.

# You do not have (a liability) to promise a committment for a long term relationship.

# You do not necessarily have to please her (after all she is a bonus prize).

# She has no room to argument even if you cheat her & dump her (because she already cheated her husband by having affair with you so she should not expect you to remain with her and aslo be faithful to her).

# Even if you dump her she still has the option to go back to her husband.

# Of course there is a greatly mysterious thrill and excitement in doing something that is regarded socially and morally wrong.

# By the way..affairs do happen when you are single..you are not the one who is married. It is a burden of married girl to think about if affair is all right or not. ..you dont have to bcuz you are still single.

Boy!! I had a really great time ...and I have no problem having such thrills more often. I simply dont wanna fall in love with a married love but I have no problem whatsoever in having affairs with married girls.

"binash kaley bipareet buddhi" - k garnu :( Responsibility, makes a difference ta sabbai ho ni Mansion. But there are women who even leave their kids for someone else. (it applies to men as wel, they leave their families). Sometimes its passion/fling, sometimes its real love- khoi k ho. My point was, the other party being cheated on (husband or wife) should be told/consulted...

Thank you all for your suggestions..... I respect your brains. Let me tell you, I didn't intentionally fall in love with this girl neither did she. We were just friends but gradually, in a year we are in relationship now. And the most important thing is, she says she still loves her husband but she doesn't want to see me with anyone else. She is clear about that.. she says she's gonna go back to her own world when I find another girl. She is not ready to get married to me neither does she want to forget me. And guys, please don't think it's about sex. We have never done that and I am pretty much sure, it's not the case. Will be waiting for further suggestions.... I really need someone to guide me, I guess at this point.

wah wah wah suvan allah!
हम को दीवना कर गए भनेर गीत गएको थियो मोरी ले । । । । ।अहिले फेरी तेही बुदा सँग घोर्ले छोरो पायो रे । कही छोरो घोर्ले छ भनेको सुनेर अनुहार पनि साथी लाई भनेर फोटो देखा भनेको आँखा त मीलेको जस्तो लाग्यो । मेरो जस्तो ठुल ठुल आँखा रैचन । अब खै के भन ने ब्रो । म त बेहे भको क्ते को गुरु भन्चन । तर एही उस्को श्रीमान ले वस्तै नै गर्दैन गीत नै गौदैन भने चै ब्रो त्यो धर्मै हो, कफु लाई ठुलो धर्मा गर्दे को छु भनेर । मुजी बुदा हरु चै अर्धा बैसे म २० बर्ष को छोरी समान क्ते सँग घुम नु हुने, हुन्छ ब्रो मान मिल्यो त कोही छैन ब्रो रोक्ने वाला ।
तर एस्तो पनि हुन्छ की बुदा बुदी मिल्दिन्छ दुबै हिस् यता तिमी खिसा होला ने । मेरो ने तेस्ताइ भयो तेसैले जती गीत गौ ने गौ, बरु दोन्त एवेन थिन्क ओथेर के । अफु लाई कर्मा योगी सोच ने उस्लाई चित बुजौने । तर दोन्त कीप अन्य अत्तच्मेन्ट भोली तेस्ताइ पर्‍यो भने तिम्रो बुदा सँग बस पनि भन नु पर्छ । झन बछ झन केटा केटी छन भने गाह्रो हुन्छ ।

Bro i have been there, seen there and lived there. Yo mero talu kina jhareko jasto laagcha.....tesai haina kte haru ko dherai sambandha le. Thanks to god ahile samma safe sex le garda aids laageko chaina. Windows period pani par bhayo HIV ko check gare clean cha bro. Tara what i am saying is husband and wife ko fight is nothing more than hay fire ke. So keep yourself away and later who is going to suffer you. She will sacrifice you easily in name of family and her kids. Last ma ko devdas that will be you.
so have fun and make her happy thats it................i sitll have 2 of those relationship. It is not sin to give pleasure to women in need. They have life as well.
अब चै गीत गौ" पिया तु अब तो आज, तन के ज्वाला थन्दी कर्ज आजा एक गिलास लस्सी पीला जा, नही तो थन्दा पनि हे क्या"
बिचरी चै घर म बुदा लाई प्यार चात्नी चता दे पिया बुदा ले मरी गए पीया दिया


la to be continued........................

uhi recovering addict
moneyminded

keep it up(

barhamasey lei ali clear garnu paryo.. is she married but single ho ki still married with no love ho ki ke ho...